Sunday, August 29, 2010

Keeping The Roof

Growing up, Dad would preface a rule or instruction with the phrase,
“As long as I keep a roof over your head…”

To that same Dad who’s always there to push us until we succeed. . .


. . . counsel us when things aren't going our way. . .


. . . and still, to this day, finds himself "keeping" a roof over our heads . . .


. . . Happy Birthday!

Friday, August 20, 2010

Summer's Redemption

"What dreadful hot weather we have!
It keeps me in a continual state of inelegance. "
~Jane Austen

The summer heat has been harsh, has it not? Last week I reached the point where I "had-it-up-to-here" with the sultry, sweltering season. Because I am a fall girl, through and through, summer is always so shocking. At no other time of the year does the afternoon’s journey across the parking lot to the 108 degree car become less of a walk and more of a swim. With a humidity saturation that climbs throughout the day until it equals the 99 degree high temperature, what else can one expect?

People who easily tan love the summer; quite the opposite, I burn and peel. People who are cold-natured dream of June, July, and August; I sweat…pardon me, I perspire about twice that of the average human being. Gym rats don’t mind the soaring heat index as they pump their iron indoors. I, on the other hand, loathe the treadmill. So if the 10.5N Asics aren’t laced by 5:30 a.m. – they probably won’t get laced at all.

As August brings the final stretch of summer our way, I felt it was appropriate to give summer at least a little praise. “Why I Fall For Fall” was written so effortlessly. An attempt at “Why I Savor Summer” leaves my fingertips stuttering, hesitating atop this barren keyboard.

But alas, one day last week while swimming through the parking lot, I did think of one delight: that of the Summer Concert Series. Most towns have them and typically, they won’t cost you a dime. I am lucky enough to choose between the Hopeland Gardens Series in Aiken, Candlelight Jazz on the banks of the Savannah River or my all-time favorite: Evenings in the Appleby Garden.



Kristi, April, Ashley and I were there to enjoy Montana Skies on the back lawn of the Appleby Library a couple of months ago. I’ve followed these two musicians for years now and love the fact that Augusta remains on their tour schedule. They met at UGA. He plays classical guitar. She plays cello. Such an unusual combination…so unusual that neither Bach nor Beethoven ever paired them together. So they took matters into their own hands and wrote their own scores. Then they married and wrote more music and recorded, too. I love them because they can stretch from the classical to the modern in the blink of an eye, playing Satie one moment and Pink Floyd the next.


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It was the day after the summer solstice and the sun hung in the sky a little longer than usual. Eventually he set, as a cello and a guitar gently coaxed him to do so. Two musicians poured out their passion on the steps of an 1830’s Greek Revival home and for almost two hours, I enjoyed a candle-lit tablescape (thank you for the flowers, April!), three dear friends and some pretty marvelous music.

It was one of those nights that even the girl who has to be sold on summer will tell you: it doesn’t get much better than this. Digging deep, it just might be that she discovers a little love for summer after all.



Sunday, August 15, 2010

Joys of June & July

It’s a rainy lazy Sunday afternoon here in Augusta. Van Morrison, who I am convinced was created for days like these, is streaming through my little Bose sound dock. The rain is drizzling. His voice is soothing, offering the just-right setting for a little reflection on the months of June and July.

I don’t believe they could have been filled with more joy. We kicked it off with a family vacation in Tennessee. My parents rented a fabulous cabin in the Smoky Mountains. It was one of those places where you just wanted to dwell forever. With a National park, an aquarium and an eight mile loop of arts and crafts, we had enough opportunity to keep Will, Dad and everyone in between, very entertained. At night we played games of Scrabble with the girls and Will. One may note that we obviously made up the rules as we went along. (Bottom right corner of the board, you’ll find Claire’s word: “E-i-e-i-o”). Dad loved the hot tub. Will did, too…standing outside it, of course…not in it. With blueberries in the backyard and trails winding all through the National park, nature was at our fingertips. We had a great time!


A few weeks later as the calendar flipped to July, Ann and Claire came for a visit. Click here and here for all of that fun. I loved having them here. They are in that sweet place: no longer little girls, not yet teenagers, but someplace in between. We would find ourselves rolling in silliness one moment and then conversing with such depth the next. Claire would ask things like, “Aunt Julie, what are some things that you know you don’t like, but you know we have to have?” Ann helped translate by clarifying, “You know, like pollen…you don’t like it, but bees and flowers need it.” And for the next 10 minutes we discuss those things that appear to be evil, but exist for our good…like bedtimes, parental discipline, and chores. And I realize this is a conversation they will have the rest of their lives. Aunt Julie has it all time. Inconveniences and boundaries so often seem to get in the way of living, but more often than not, they really do exist for our good. No doubt, we all agreed on some unmistakably GOOD things: make-up, museums, and movies (preferably of the drive-in type) to name a few!

"Summertime, and the livin' is easy." ~Gershwin